Lessons from the Edge
August 27th, 2010
Thanks to a little comment-dialog on Facebook, I’ve settled on a title for the weekly posts I knew I would end up writing about my experiences at Edgewood Retirement Center. So now I present to you my first installment of Lessons from the Edge.
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Whew!
I’m just finishing my third week as the Activities Director at Edgewood. And I can truly say I love it there. Oh, there is so much to learn job-wise, and I am feeling rather overwhelmed in that regard. But I know God is going to lead me through each step. I am trusting in HIM.
Last week – in an attempt to get to know the residents better – I began sitting at a different table each day during the lunch hour. I have heard funny stories and heart-breaking stories. I have been encouraged as a mother to hang in there through the hard times. And I have been reminded of the value of listening to a person – just letting him talk, letting him say the same thing over and over – because he simply needs someone who will listen. But the thing I want to share today doesn’t come from the specific words a person said – rather the relationship I witnessed between a husband and wife.
Right away I was touched by how she took care of his needs. Cutting his meatloaf and pouring his coffee. She wanted everything to be just right for him. Wanted to be sure he was happy. She smiled the whole time she was doting on him.
Then, as our conversation took off, I was a bit surprised when she turned to him and said, “Tell Karen where I worked.” And a moment later, when she asked him, “How old is our second daughter?” She turned to me at that point and explained, “My memory isn’t very good anymore, so I have to ask him a lot of questions.”
And do you know what?
It looked to me as if it delighted him just as much to answer her questions as it delighted her to cut his meatloaf.
They met each other’s needs. Where one was weak, the other was strong – and they delighted in completing one another. They’re like that every time I see them. What a beautiful picture that couple is to me about the way a husband and wife can be together.
They’re an inspiration to me, and I’m going to keep my eyes on them!
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